Showing posts with label Owen. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Owen. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 16, 2019

Building a Patio and Fire Pit

For several years I’ve been admiring fire pits....our fire circle could only loosely be called a circle.   There was no boarder of said circle and every spring it flooded and typically I found half burnt pieces of wood all over the back lawn.    Well this year I spent hours looking on Pinterest for ideas and if money were no object you can have some pretty fabulous patios and fire pits in your backyard.    We even went as far as to get a couple estimates.  Let’s just say we did not have $8000 that we wanted to put into the vision I had for our back yard.

So armed with new resolve I started looking at how to build a patio with fire pit in our yard.    I researched materials and the do’s and don’ts in building the structure that I envisioned.   I priced out the cost of the materials and my paid laborers and I thought I could bring the project in for significantly less than the quoted price from a professional.

So armed with my new found knowledge I took a trip to the Lebanon Block Plant.    I’ve lived in this town for 31 years and had no idea we had a block plant!    The worker wanted to be helpful but he admitted he normally worked in the yard so that should have been my first clue.   He showed me a patio kit and since I wanted to do a circular patio ordering a kit was key for me.   He told me one kit built a six foot patio and two kits build a 11.5 foot patio.   So he ordered the blocks for me.  I also picked out a fire circle that day as well.

I went home and started the work of preparing the ground.   I measured out the width of the circle and very carefully marked the circumference of the circle and double checked the total circle measurements.  My work is pretty unremarkable, but still key to the success of the project.


Next we had the materials we needed delivered.  Home Depot had a cool little tractor that was able to deliver the supplies right to the side of our project area.   Unfortunately the delivery from the block plant was not so helpful.   The offloaded the bricks to the very front of the house....and probably the place on our property most distant from our project area.   That just meant we got to bring every brick across our property in our new wheelbarrow!   See the blue wheelbarrow below.


Next we needed to start excavation of the ground.  That meant that Joe rented a sod cutter.   He planned to take advantage of moving the good grass we removed from the backyard to a place in our front yard that we just have struggled to have what anyone could describe as “lawn”.   We used our day laborers to move the sod and try to replace the bad sod at the front of the house.



Owen came over and helped Joe and I dig down approximately 5 inches, two inches for the bricks, 2 inches for the sand and an inch for the matting that we used.   This is a new product that replaces the crushed stone and was easier to work with and saved our backs.  Owen is really good at making the ground level and this really helped us to get a good start on this project.

In the photo below you can see the mat and how it serves to create a stable surface for the bricks to rest on.    The Boardman boys helped us start the process of laying our circle out on the prepared surface.


We worked all day laying bricks, following the pattern provided and we got to 11.5 feet, the diameter I was told was the diameter of the two kits.....that is when I realized I had nearly 3/4 of a pallet of bricks left.   So I stopped and emailed the woman who I talked to after the bricks were delivered without any directions.....and trust me directions were needed, yea essential.   It was after hours so I did not expect a response until Monday but with our cell phones not even the block plant office staff are able to get away from their email.   Tori answered my question about why we had so many blocks left.....essentially the yard guy told me the kit dimension of 11.5 feet was only 3 feet off.   In looking at the existing patio footprint I decided 11.5 feet was too small and we really did need to make it bigger.  I talked to Tori and we decided to make the total dimensions 14.5 feet.    She told me I needed two expansion packs to make that work....so I bought more bricks.   Obviously this necessitated more digging and leveling and more sand and mat to prepare for the additional 1.5 feet of bricks all around - for a total of three additional feet to my patio circle.





Once we had laid down more material to create level ground we were ready to finish laying the stones that would make our 14.5 foot patio.    I put the inner circle of the fire pit down to get a sense for how big it would be.    We continued to lay stones and was able to lay the entire 14.5 foot patio without ever using the expansion packs we had ordered.....by the time we finished the circle I just did not care.  There were more than enough bricks to create a platform to stack wood on left even after we finished.   We decided to use the extra bricks to put under the hose bib in the back of the house.  Which was a good project in and of itself.


Even though not finished Sully thinks this is a very nice place to nap in the sun.   You can see that there is quite a bit of space between the stones.    I went ahead and built the fire circle which went around the metal insert above.  Again no photos of that process.   Next step is to fill with Polymeric sand.   This is sand that when wet with water kind of turns into a concrete type material and should keep the stones from moving and shifting around.    I did not get pictures of us doing this work but I can tell you it only took us two more trips back to Home Depot to get more sand to fill the cracks.  As with any Mender project several trips to Home Depot are a requirement.   

The family motto is "Mender Construction, it's not right until it's been done twice"

The picture below shows the patio with the sand and after the first application of water to harden the sand in place.   The project is really starting to look great.




To finish up the project Joe went to a patio supply store that sells Adirondack chairs.   He ordered two for us and then picked up two for the little girls.   Robyn showed Emma the photo below to which her response was "that's so sweet".    Looking forward to making s'mores with all the of the grandkids and enjoying time with family and friends this summer.

https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=1sc7f6Nfwb8X17zqXBqtoZUAQoTwDriCg
All of the above represents a lot of hard work and we were lucky to have some lovely days to work not this project.  It took about 40 hours start to finish over the course of about three weeks.   I'm not sure when you factor in our time if it ended up being less expensive than the original quote but there is a certain sense of accomplishment which came from finishing this project.  Something that we'd never tried before, studying about it, and executing to the point that you stand back and really love the results!

We had our first fires this week and our first s'mores on Tuesday.   So we are officially calling this a successful Mender project.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Happy 75th Birthday!


A 75th birthday only comes around once in a lifetime!   So we wanted to celebrate with you....this has been quite a year for celebrating your birthday (and by year we mean the last twelve months)!   We started out the celebration with a call which said let's go to Florida and celebrate mom's 75th birthday...well thinking that mom's birthday is in January that seemed like an exciting idea!   But the get together had to be scheduled in August.   

So we gathered in Florida at Walt Disney World for the birthday celebration without end!   Did you know when it is your birthday at Disney they give you a button that identifies you as the birthday girl?   And did you know if you wear it every day for a week, every where you go you get birthday cake and that every one wishes you happy birthday?   Well Pat does!!!!

First Birthday celebration!!

Next Birthday Celebration!
You get the idea!

Then we were off to visit the Disney parks.....oh did we mention it was 100 degrees and 99% humidity? We visited MGM, Magic Kingdom, Epcot, and Animal Kingdom all in one week.   Here are some of our photos from the week!



Did we mention it was hot?





We saw Pluto and Goofy!
 And Tigger too!
 And of course Winnie the Pooh.

 We partied at Hoop de Doo!

 This kind of looks like a parade!


Grandma and the Cousins!

Pat and Lew - still in love!

Pat, we had the kids over for Family Night last month and we talked about what we wanted to share with you on your birthday.   All the reasons that you are special to us.   We came up with a HUGE list of things and wanted to share some of them with you as a kind of birthday tribute!

Special Thoughts

Joe

Mom, you always made us whatever kind of cake we wanted.  I especially remember the snowman and my favorite, mac and cheese.  Do you remember my 16th birthday?   You put me over your knee.  I was thinking I should return the favor.  I always remember how you always woke us up singing...whatever was on your mind.

Kim
My favorite memories are knowing that you and Lew would always be there for family milestones.   You are always there for the "big" events....blessings, baptisms, temple endowments, graduations, missions, football games, performances, marriages.   The list goes on and on.  You are an amazing example of love of family.   I also love your generally sunny disposition.    You are a great example to our family....we love you tons!

The Boys....and Anne Marie

Always to be remembered....those "terrible" Christmas cookies.   
Could you ever make enough?  
We remember when we came to visit you always made sure everyone had breakfast no matter how many people were there, or how long we slept.
We remember hot dog casserole and macaroni salad (Yummmmy)
Enjoyed going to the Hill Cumorah Pageant and staying at your house.

Characteristics
Short and Sweet
Happy
Fun Loving
Loves to be with the Family
Makes everyone feel like part of the Family
Loves to be with the Family at the Temple
Loves the Gospel
Good cook
Caring
HONEST


Pat, we are so grateful that you and Lew have made the trip up to be with each of our children as they have gone through the temple....here are a few pictures to help you remember those trips.

Owen - Boston Temple 2005

Mitch - Boston Temple 2009


Anne Marie - Palmyra Temple 2010


Pat, I can't thank you enough for all you have done for our family.   You have obviously been a fantastic mother.   Joe is all that I could hope for in a friend and husband.  He is kind, and caring, and constantly thinking about the needs of others and I know he learned all that from his mother.   You have been a great example to our boys and have always encouraged them to do the right things and have written to them and supported them on their missions.  You have made gifts for their babies and always remembered them on their birthdays and special events.   Not only were you there for the birth of our children --- you've been there for the really important events in their lives.  You know them and love them!   You truly are a significant part of their lives and for that I thank you.     You have shared your spirit with them and your love of life.   They know that they are important to you!   

Hope you have a great day today and know that we love you!  Happy 75th Birthday!!!!





Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Mitch is a Missionary!

It has been a long time since we had all the kids together for a photo in their church clothes! The day that Mitch was set apart as a missionary was occasion enough for everyone to gather at church and to allow us to get a family photo of everyone together. I especially liked this one of the kids. It was a great shot! Everyone happy and smiling, including Adi. 


President Cook set Mitch apart as a missionary and here are a few of the the things that he counseled Mitch to remember as he prepares to serve as a missionary in Brazil.

  • The Lord has blessed you with goodly parents, they have taught you good from evil.
  • You have been able to make good choices in your life, including recognizing when you have made mistakes.
  • You have been foreordained to be a disciple in this life and have a testimony Jesus Christ.
  • Be valiant and fearless, you will have energy, desire, and be a hard worker
  • You will love your companions, befriend them and you will be lifelong friends
  • You are blessed with gifts of tongues to both speak and understand the language.
  • You will be able to relate to and love the people and will bring many to the covenant of baptism.
  • Jesus said that he who believes and is obedient will have eternal life, which is the greatest gift.
  • You are commissioned to teach, preach, baptize those that are prepared.
  • You will be protected from harm, danger, and disease
  • Write to your parents weekly
  • Share your testimony with your siblings and your parents.
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Monday, July 27, 2009

Mender Family Photo 2009



We have been averaging a family photo about every two years so it was about time! The last photo we had was when Owen returned from his mission and we are scheduled for our next photo when Mitch returns from his mission! Amazing how time flies.....but I sure am glad we have tortured our children with these family bonding moments. Over the years we have had tears....lost shirts (that is a funny story) and lately just alot of laughter as we have gathered for these photos. I'm so glad we have this history of our family and how they have grown over the years! Now that we have grandchildren in the picture we may need to pick up the frequency of our photo sessions!

Friday, May 30, 2008

Get Ready, Get Set, Go!!!

Tonight was the Project Graduation BBQ at the Lebanon Green. As always, it was catered by Bloods Seafood and that always means that it is a good meal. They do a great job. This year the weather actually held out and was quite nice - not only did it not rain but it was warm and that was a nice change of pace! Below you can see Owen attempting to take down his brother in the Dunk Tank!